It’s already been 4 years - almost - since I posted?!!? How? Yikes!
That last time (here),a part of me was still trying to comfort/convince myself that I was doing the right thing. I thought that I would write about recovery. I knew that it would be brutal but bearable at first; then, I would make progress and have good days. I would feel better and go back to “regular” life and work and feel it was all worth it.
Well, that is not how it went. There is too much to tell in this one post, but spoiler alert: I already had cancer. This was like vindication! I was right to take action! Don’t get too excited yet - it’s never that simple. I also had massive complications including a long-term open wound and, worse, MANY blood clots in my lungs and legs. I owe my life to the doctors and nurses who figured out what was happening and got me through the immediate danger!
The rest of the recovery was longer than expected. I had to go back to work with an open gash in my abdomen. I had to have more surgeries - even one during COVID.
On the (very) bright side, I’m here to tell the tale - I made it - YAY YAY YAY! My family, friends, and co-workers were caring, helpful, and beyond incredible! I am still overwhelmed with love and gratitude.
We have also had a lot of fun and many adventures in these last few years! I can’t wait to share more about the joy!
So, that’s it, a few years condensed to a few sentences. You all know how time goes - days are long, years are short. . . all that.